5 kinky date ideas to do with your partner for Valentine's Day

Photo: Nu 1 by Willy Ronis

Valentine's Day is often synonymous with candlelit dinners and red roses, personally I find it a bit old-fashioned so why not spice things up a little this year? If you're ready to think outside the box and explore a more adventurous side of your relationship, here are five kinky date ideas for an unforgettable Valentine's Day with your partner:

1. Wearing a vibrator in a public place and letting your partner control it
Nothing builds excitement like the thrill of what's forbidden. Why not add a little spice to your evening by wearing a discreet vibrator in a public place? Let your partner take the controls and control the vibrations remotely. The anticipation and risk of getting caught will add a whole new dimension to your pleasure.

With connected vibrators from Satisfyer you can control the toy from the Satisfyer app, create your own vibration patterns and also make your toy vibrate to the rhythm of your playlist!

With connected vibrators from We-Vibe you can control your partner's toy from anywhere in the world! Ideal for long-distance couples.

2. Make a list of all your fantasies:

Here is one of my favorite ideas: Take the time to think about all your fantasies, all the things you would like to do in bed (with or without your partner) and make a list. Then take the time to read your lists to each other without judgment. This exercise will allow you to develop your curiosity within your relationship while being vulnerable.

3. Give yourself a sensual massage with a massage candle:
Nothing like a sensual massage to stimulate the senses and bring the bodies together. For an even more thrilling experience, let's try using a massage candle. Massage candles by Intamo are specially designed to be poured onto the skin. After letting it burn for around ten minutes, extinguish the candle and carefully pour the hot oil over your partner. In addition to having relaxing and sensual properties, these candles are also very hydrating and organic.

Massage candle by Intamo starting at $CAD 42.50.

4. Masturbate together and show each other what we like:
Let's get comfortable, take the time to pleasure each other and show each other what really turns us on. This deep connection and shared vulnerability will undoubtedly strengthen the bond you have with your partner.

5. Play a naughty card game:
“Which part of your body needs more attention?” or even “What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in the name of love?” Here are some of the questions that you can find in the Happy Tears Date Night game or even the Jouissance Club game (available in several bookstores in Quebec). These card games will allow you to create conversations about spicy subjects that we would not necessarily brought up in regular convos. In addition, with hundreds of cards you are sure to be able to play several evenings in a row and never get bored.